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roastelk
06-16-2008, 10:22 AM
Have any of you ever experienced the eerie feeling of realizing that you are truly not the same person you were a year ago....

I'll spare you guys most of the details... save to say I've gone from being a quiet chronically depressed loner with no friends or social skills, to being a person with a very full life. I've also obtained a very high control of my stutter, where as a year and a half ago I usually resorted to pen and paper to communicate with people....

In late winter 2007 something just snapped in my head, I cant really explain it, nor do i really understand it, but a life altering epiphany came to me literally while I was at the end of my rope... I was ready to hang myself and slip into non existence. but I kept asking myself what was important to me, what i wanted out life, and I found many reasons to keep going. one reason in particular drives me more than any other, it drove me to seek help, to change myself and to push myself to do things I never thought I'd be doing.


My top reason happened far sooner and not under the circumstances I would have preferred, but those circumstances where my doing. my top reason is sleeping in a incubator in a neonatal care unit right now, she's four weeks early and so tiny, but otherwise doing good. please Welcome Olga Mae (Ollie) to the world for me.

JamesBannon
06-16-2008, 10:50 AM
:welcome: Olga Mae (aka Ollie)

Pinecone
06-16-2008, 01:46 PM
Welcome to the planet Ollie!!

Hugs for the new Mom and Dad!

ShottleBop
06-16-2008, 01:53 PM
Mazel tov!

LadyShea
06-16-2008, 02:12 PM
Welcome to the world little one!

freemonkey
06-16-2008, 02:32 PM
Welcome to the world, Ollie. And good for you, Roast Elk.

Uthgar the Brazen
06-16-2008, 02:34 PM
Welcome to Earth, Ollie. You'll get used to the smell.

:hug: roastelk

Garnet
06-16-2008, 02:49 PM
Congratulations, roastelk, to you and yours. Welcome to little Ollie.

Chris Porter
06-16-2008, 02:50 PM
I just had a friend write me with the same issue of life-altering epiphanies. Not the same situation as you, just another profound, turn one's life around sort of thing. Odd coincidence

Anyway, welcome, Olga Mae.

Artemis Entreri
06-16-2008, 03:21 PM
You were right the life you used to know is over. (http://www.freethought-forum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14685)
Sound's like you're enjoying your new life much much more. Congratulations! Welcome to the world lil' Ollie! :flowerdance:

vremya
06-16-2008, 03:35 PM
Welcome Ollie Mae!

And congrats and hugs to mom and dad too!

cappuccino
06-16-2008, 03:53 PM
Congratulations, Olga Mae, Ollie! Welcome to the world.

Sock Puppet
06-16-2008, 04:12 PM
Congrats, roastelk! Here's hoping li'l Ollie comes home soonest.

Stormlight
06-16-2008, 04:25 PM
Congrats, roastelk! :cheer:

ITSOZAZ
06-16-2008, 05:08 PM
Congrats!! Olga Mae is a great name!! :D

(did you know the girl in the Thriller video is named Ola Ray?...not sure why i mention this)

anyhow...cool for you :)

wei yau
06-16-2008, 05:41 PM
Love the name Olga Mae, love "Ollie" as a nickname even more.

Congrats and welcome to the 'hood.

Plant Woman
06-16-2008, 07:12 PM
Wow, Roastelk, that is so great! And congrats on your tiny little bundle too. Yeah that is life changing, although I remember it was surreal for awhile when I went home without my girl because she had to stay for another week and stay under lights because she was jaundiced. But it became very real when she came home.

Life is so good!

Smilin
06-16-2008, 07:27 PM
Big Smiles for you Roastelk....

:D

Welcome to the world...young, tiny bundle of joy!

Crumb
06-16-2008, 09:28 PM
Congrats, roastelk! :shake:

Julie
06-16-2008, 09:30 PM
Welcome to the world Baby girl!! Congrats roastelk and Roastelk's mate!

Watser?
06-16-2008, 11:59 PM
Huh, I thought this thread would be about something completely different :huh?:

Congrats Roastelk :cheer:

biochemgirl
06-17-2008, 12:26 AM
Wow, what a post. Congratulations! :D

viscousmemories
06-17-2008, 01:25 AM
:welcome: Ollie, congratulations roastelk.

Is it wrong that "Olga Mae" makes me think of "Enola Gay"? The OMD song, not the plane.

Qingdai
06-17-2008, 05:46 AM
Congratulations Roastelk. I hope you enjoy fatherhood.

The day you bring that baby home is the most emotional, scary day I can recall.

Bella
06-17-2008, 02:06 PM
Congratulations!

wildernesse
06-17-2008, 02:30 PM
Congratulations! What a beautiful name!

godfry n. glad
06-17-2008, 03:09 PM
Welcome, Ollie...Congrats, roastelk and mate.

One for Sorrow
06-18-2008, 02:40 AM
Congratulations! :storkgirl:

roastelk
06-19-2008, 02:00 PM
12:14 am July 16 - 3.04kg...

anyways they want to keep Olga at the hospital for the next week. which is good with me....gives my other girl some time, to recuperate. ... well I'm off to go work, later.

Logan
06-20-2008, 08:40 AM
Welcome to the world 'Olga Mae', love and be loved.

Oh and.....sory we left shit everywhere *cough*.....we'll get on that....

Logan