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Gyre
01-12-2009, 02:53 PM
Well I have had a bad month, Christmas saw the loss of my little dog Clover and now my very aged cat Myra is getting near to the end. She has been with me for 17 years now and i fear not much longer.

Clovers passing was a terrible thing for me as he was only 10 and i expected 2-6 more years with him at the very least. He became ill and just when i thought he was getting better he took a turn for the worse on Christmas eve, while i was completely trapped from snow and could do nothing but make him comfortable.

Myra has been seemingly close to death for a couple of years now, she is very thin and moves carefully. Recently she seems to be in pain which concerns me. I have left messages for some mobile vets as I do not want to put her through the trauma of a vet visit. Apparently there are no cat pain killers that you can buy, they are all Rx and no vet will let me have some without seeing her. I have promised not to put myra through such stress again (she has always been high stress). For now I will keep her close and try to judge what kind of pain she is in. She is still eating, drinking, and eliminating, she even wants attention. But I fear her time is near, I don't want her to suffer but making the decision to euthanize is so painful I just hope if it comes to that I will have the strength to do that for her.


I had thought it would be less difficult facing the loss of Myra because I have been expecting it. But just the thought is crushing. The loss of clover is still so fresh in my heart.

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Shelli
01-12-2009, 03:40 PM
:snuggles:


I have 7 animals myself and I dread those days. :doggytremble:

Watser?
01-12-2009, 03:41 PM
:cheerup:

Smilin
01-12-2009, 03:44 PM
:hug:

I know the pain of losing a pet.....

When my dog "Speckles" passed on and I buried her in our backyard under her favorite tree....

It was like one of my own children had passed on.....

JoeP
01-12-2009, 03:49 PM
:cuddle:

LadyShea
01-12-2009, 03:56 PM
:closehug:

freemonkey
01-12-2009, 04:25 PM
:unglomp:

seebs
01-12-2009, 04:45 PM
It was really scary realizing that I'd had my cat longer than I'd been dating my spouse. In the end, it was fairly quick, I guess. I still miss him, though.

Leesifer
01-12-2009, 04:45 PM
:hug:

Pinecone
01-12-2009, 06:58 PM
:sigh:

:hug:

biochemgirl
01-12-2009, 08:36 PM
Losing a pet is never easy. They really are a part of the family. :snuggles:

Ymir's blood
01-13-2009, 03:16 AM
:hug:

Qingdai
01-13-2009, 03:22 AM
I'm sorry. I lost my cat a while ago. But did find a good mobile vet. PM'ing you the contact information if you should need it.

Stormlight
01-13-2009, 06:53 AM
:closehug:

Legs
01-13-2009, 01:45 PM
Gyre :closehug:

pescifish
01-14-2009, 08:32 PM
I'm so sorry, Gyre. :hug:

Deadlokd
01-15-2009, 11:25 PM
Sorry Gyre. :hug:

The Lone Ranger
01-19-2009, 05:18 PM
My mother's 19½ year-old cat died yesterday. He was a big old ball of fur who loved everyone. He was truly a cat who never met a person he didn't like. It used to amaze me when I'd visit and see the nieces and nephews pulling his tail or otherwise tormenting him, and he'd never bite, hiss, growl, or otherwise complain. He seemed to love any and all forms of attention.

When I left North Carolina for graduate school, it was a couple of years before I visited again. When I stopped by my mother's house after a couple of years away, the cat, to my surprise, clearly remembered me. As soon as I came inside, he ran up to me, meowing as if to say, "Where have you been all this time?" and insisted on sitting on my lap the whole time I was there.

Cheers,

Michael

Tanda
01-19-2009, 10:47 PM
So sorry that you're hurting.