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Wizard
10-24-2005, 09:47 PM
Well, I really dont like girls very much. I'm sexually attracted to them but I only "like" less than 1 percent of all the women there are. It's difficult for me to like girls, I love watching a girl fuck on pornos but I just dont seem to like girls. My Dad has been pressuring me to date but I dont see the purpose because 1. I dont like any girls and 2. I just want some pussy to fuck. I know this is a sexist attitude but it's the way I see girls as, just service stop stations on the road of life so to speak. I think the sexes are equal though. I'm not gay either, I dont like guys and I'm not sexually attracted to them either. Why Am i like this?

Leesifer
10-24-2005, 10:06 PM
How old are you, Wizard?

livius drusus
10-24-2005, 10:08 PM
What do you mean by like? Are you talking about friendships or even just that you don't know any women who have character traits you appreciate or respect?

Since you don't like men either, does this mean nobody has character traits you appreciate or you have no friends who are male?

LadyShea
10-24-2005, 10:19 PM
I was gonna ask the same questions livius did. How are you defining "like"?

Veritas
10-24-2005, 10:22 PM
Also, do many women like you?

Wizard
10-24-2005, 10:28 PM
I'm 17, and by like I mean love like, when a guy likes a girl he asks her out, that kind. I have male friends and I also have female friends.

Veritas
10-24-2005, 10:30 PM
God, I hated everyone when I was 17. I still feel the bile rise for about 87% of the population and I'm 30 in seven months.

pescifish
10-24-2005, 10:30 PM
[ETA: deadly cross-post here -- I wrote this before Wizard's several posts above this. I'm sooooo slow. :( Sorry.]


Have you had a chance to actually get to know any/many women (or men)?

As others have suggested, it's possible the real answer to your question "Why am I like this?" has to do with your definition and understanding of what constitutes "liking" someone.

People, in general, are pretty scary IMO. Sometimes we think we don't like someone who is different from us simply because we don't know how to relate and/or the strangeness is off-putting. It's much safer to avoid all that scary part, but it's not anywhere near as satisfying (IMO).

livius drusus
10-24-2005, 10:31 PM
I know this is a sexist attitude but it's the way I see girls as, just service stop stations on the road of life so to speak.

Do you see your female friends like this?

LadyShea
10-24-2005, 10:32 PM
I'm 17, and by like I mean love like, when a guy likes a girl he asks her out, that kind. I have male friends and I also have female friends.

You do not feel a romantic attachment. That's pretty normal for your age, as is thinking their is a difference between "friend" like and "love" like.

Adora
10-24-2005, 10:35 PM
Why Am i like this?
Because you're a fuckwit. You and Abe need to hook up sometime. "Service stop stations", "Oh but equality and all that lipservice shit"? Grow some fucking balls you whiny little brat.

Leesifer
10-24-2005, 10:35 PM
That's why I asked your age, Wizard. Without sounding condescending, I think you're perfectly normal for your age - especially for a boy. :wink:

Heh, I've just noticed, all your replies so far have been from girls.

Wizard
10-24-2005, 10:37 PM
Well, most of my female friends I would fuck so I guess so but no in that they are still good friends but if they want to have sex then just ask me and we can.

Dragar
10-24-2005, 10:40 PM
I like girls when I've got to know them a bit. Prior to that they are honestly quite scary and unpredictable creatures. But I'm the same way regarding all humans in that respect.

I'm certainly sexually attracted a third to two thirds of the girls/women I see (varies from day to day), while the number I'd seriously consider entering a relationship with is significantly smaller.

But what do I know? I'm nearly 21 and my experience with romance is all but non-existant, and yet still greater than my sexual experience. So I'm hardly an expert.

Veritas
10-24-2005, 10:43 PM
Well, most of my female friends I would fuck so I guess so but no in that they are still good friends but if they want to have sex then just ask me and we can.

Oh wow, you smooth operator. Go on, try that line on Adora.

It'd be like throwing the Christians to the lions...

Wizard
10-24-2005, 11:31 PM
I'd lick Adora's pussy but she called me a fuckwit and basically told me to fuck off. :tmlol:

Veritas
10-24-2005, 11:42 PM
Can't think why...

Wizard
10-25-2005, 01:34 AM
lol bump

Dingfod
10-25-2005, 03:20 AM
I don't blame you, girls are icky. They've all got cooters... er, cooties.

lisarea
10-25-2005, 04:10 AM
Yes, Wizard. I know exactly how you feel.

I don't like girls (you know, like, *like* like), even though I am totally hetero.

I don't get it.

Crumb
10-25-2005, 04:16 AM
:giggles:

Ensign Steve
10-25-2005, 04:24 AM
I don't like girls (you know, like, *like* like), even though I am totally hetero.



:kickscan:

MooseIBe
10-25-2005, 11:18 AM
Yes, Wizard. I know exactly how you feel.

I don't like girls (you know, like, *like* like), even though I am totally hetero.

I don't get it.

Damnit I was gonna use that line ;)

ManM
10-25-2005, 12:58 PM
Why Am i like this?
Selfishness. Oddly enough, people jump on my case whenever I say it's a bad thing. :shrug:

Waluigi
10-25-2005, 01:45 PM
So you're 17 and you don't want to be bothered with dating, commitments, and love?

Sounds normal to me.

My recommendation: go to college when you graduate, and attend every party you can. Get laid, have fun, and move on. In time, you'll get tired of that (maybe) and will begin looking for a more long-term romance. Then you'll get married someday.

Just like the rest of us suckers!!! :bliss: :nyahnyah:

Wizard
10-25-2005, 02:06 PM
So you're 17 and you don't want to be bothered with dating, commitments, and love?

Sounds normal to me.

My recommendation: go to college when you graduate, and attend every party you can. Get laid, have fun, and move on. In time, you'll get tired of that (maybe) and will begin looking for a more long-term romance. Then you'll get married someday.

Just like the rest of us suckers!!! :bliss: :nyahnyah:
After college I'll be in law school, partying while there will be difficult. :D

Dingfod
10-25-2005, 02:10 PM
Yeah, right. If it were med school, I'd agree, but law school?

Wizard
10-25-2005, 02:17 PM
Yeah, right. If it were med school, I'd agree, but law school?
Basically the only reason why is because you have tons of studying to do there from what i've heard.

Dingfod
10-25-2005, 02:19 PM
I wouldn't actually know about that because I never even completed one year of college.

D. Scarlatti
10-25-2005, 02:40 PM
You have the makings of a fine divorce lawyer, Wizard. Just make sure you don't end up practicing in a marital property state, because that will probably take most of the fun out of it for you.

cappuccino
10-25-2005, 05:12 PM
Yeah, right. If it were med school, I'd agree, but law school?

Law schools require an exordinate amount of studying and reading just to maintain a decent grade average. I have two friends in law school and they spend almost every their waking moments studying just to stay on top of their workload.

At least in med school you get to do cool stuff like dissection and poking needles in people.

Waluigi
10-25-2005, 05:15 PM
After college I'll be in law school, partying while there will be difficult. :D
So get your undergrad degree in Philosophy, or some other liberal arts major that affords plenty of time to party... :cool:

(knowing my luck, this place is probably swamped with liberal arts majors!)

erimir
10-25-2005, 10:02 PM
I don't like girls that much.

Maybe you just haven't had a good man-lover ;) Then you'd realize that you like men.

Dingfod
10-25-2005, 10:03 PM
That's disgusting. He's underage.

Veritas
10-25-2005, 11:24 PM
Law schools require an exordinate amount of studying...

Inordinate or exorbitant (which is actually properly used in a financial sense)?

Pick one, you can't have both.

livius drusus
10-25-2005, 11:42 PM
(knowing my luck, this place is probably swamped with liberal arts majors!)

:glare:

Ensign Steve
10-25-2005, 11:45 PM
I'm a computer science major, oh-KAY?!

Wizard
10-26-2005, 12:23 AM
i think I'll major in Political Science.

seebs
10-26-2005, 01:18 AM
Ironically, I have been considering going to law school for the fun of it.

godfry n. glad
10-26-2005, 01:27 AM
(knowing my luck, this place is probably swamped with liberal arts majors!)

:glare:

Is economics a "liberal art"?

Are there any "conservative arts"?

Raging_Storms
10-26-2005, 01:29 AM
Oh.....fantastic, I found this most amusing to read, don't you just loving being able to voice yourself freely....so you get shot down like a clay pigeon but at least you get to say something without being censored. I am new here and am aware I may have completely destroyed the line of conversation, for which in part I apologise, but hey saying what you when you want is something I have never actually had the luxury of doing (without being ignored) but this could remain forever...couldn't it? Hi People I'm not actually a storm, but a person called Steve....weird but still a person...on a sugar trip - this wasn't quick was it?

livius drusus
10-26-2005, 01:31 AM
Oh cool. We already have a sugar trip smiley and everything: :rush: Isn't he adorable?

Welcome to FF, Raging_Storms. :welcome1:

Ensign Steve
10-26-2005, 01:33 AM
Is economics a "liberal art"?


The school where I originally took it considered it a "humanities" credit. Then when I transferred the units to my new school, it was only a "general elective" or some shit. Like anybody would elect to take economics. Macro and micro, baby! Oooh, yeah, that is hawt.

Ymir's blood
10-26-2005, 02:10 AM
Are there any "conservative arts"?
Do fear mongering, quote mining and race baiting count?

Waluigi
10-26-2005, 02:17 AM
:glare:
Have I told you lately how much I like this site, and how wonderful I think you are, liv? :wink:

livius drusus
10-26-2005, 03:00 AM
Hmph. I'll let you off the hook this once, but only because you didn't ask if we recited "you want fries with that?" at our my diploma ceremony.

Dingfod
10-26-2005, 12:47 PM
Oh.....fantastic, I found this most amusing to read, don't you just loving being able to voice yourself freely....so you get shot down like a clay pigeon but at least you get to say something without being censored. I am new here and am aware I may have completely destroyed the line of conversation, for which in part I apologise, but hey saying what you when you want is something I have never actually had the luxury of doing (without being ignored) but this could remain forever...couldn't it? Hi People I'm not actually a storm, but a person called Steve....weird but still a person...on a sugar trip - this wasn't quick was it?Cool, huh? Welcome to FF, Steve.

erimir
10-26-2005, 09:50 PM
That's disgusting. He's underage.
Not in this country, nor my state back home he's not.

Besides, please. High school kids have sex. I was talking about an age appropriate man-lover, not some 42 year old lech.

Dingfod
10-26-2005, 10:30 PM
That's disgusting. He's underage.
Not in this country, nor my state back home he's not.

Besides, please. High school kids have sex.They do? :shock: Well, I never did. Not for the lack of trying, mind you.

I was talking about an age appropriate man-lover, not some 42 year old lech.At what age does one become a lech? Is there a certain age or is it an age differential thing? I want to know because I'm 50 and most certainly have moved from lech to dirty old man. But, I want to know, for the novel I'm writing about my life, when the transition occured from [wannabe] player to lech.

Leesifer
10-26-2005, 11:16 PM
Bah, 50 isn't old Warren.

Sock Puppet
10-26-2005, 11:30 PM
Ironically, I have been considering going to law school for the fun of it.
Now THAT has to be the most perverted statement ever posted in the Sexuality forum. You're a sick, sick man.

Legs
10-27-2005, 12:01 AM
Wizard, use a condom - you don't want to be a Dad do you? or get a nice STD, right?

I think you are normal too. Try not to think about all this too much, just relax and see what happens. Don't let your Father pressure you into dating for 'appearances''.

Wizard
10-27-2005, 12:28 AM
No, right now I dont ever want to be a Dad. It's been hard enough with my Dad recently because he found out I was an atheist in August by you guessed it, looking on my yahoo messenger archives and he still doesn't like me being it because he's a Southern Baptist, a Christian group which believes if you dont become a Christian you go to Hell.

Godless Dave
10-27-2005, 01:13 PM
Yeah, right. If it were med school, I'd agree, but law school?
Basically the only reason why is because you have tons of studying to do there from what i've heard.


I used to date a law student. She did indeed have a lot of studying to do, but she and her friends still found time to have sex and drink like fish.

Good times.

Dingfod
10-27-2005, 02:00 PM
No, right now I dont ever want to be a Dad. It's been hard enough with my Dad recently because he found out I was an atheist in August by you guessed it, looking on my yahoo messenger archives and he still doesn't like me being it because he's a Southern Baptist, a Christian group which believes if you dont become a Christian you go to Hell.I know a number of Southern Baptists that believe if you're not Southern Baptist you're going to Hell. I stopped believing in Hell quite a few years before I finally let go of the god thing. Nobody can scare me by saying I'm going to Hell.

xyza
10-27-2005, 02:03 PM
So go to hell won't work either ??? :twisted:

Dingfod
10-27-2005, 02:07 PM
Why do you ask?

xyza
10-27-2005, 02:12 PM
Just thinking if you're not scared by being told your going to hell, being told to go to hell wouldn't bother you either.

For me it's just one of those stupid phrases, but I guess for some it might mean something. I was just typing off the top of my head.

Dingfod
10-27-2005, 02:29 PM
I guess whether or not it would bother me would depend on who said it to me and under what circumstances.

JoeP
10-27-2005, 09:20 PM
I used to date a law student. She did indeed have a lot of studying to do, but she and her friends still found time to have sex and drink like fish.As long as it wasn't having sex like a fish. (She lays her eggs on a rock and you ... ah ... milt (http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=milt) all over them.)

Wizard
10-27-2005, 09:25 PM
The first girl I fuck better not be a virgin because I dont like blood at all.

livius drusus
10-27-2005, 09:32 PM
Just link her to your posts about women and she'll take her hymen far, far away from you, don't you worry.

Legs
10-27-2005, 09:38 PM
liv :giggle:

Clutch Munny
10-27-2005, 09:39 PM
Somewhere out there is a virgin girl thinking, "The first guy I fuck better not be a self-centered misogynist asshole, because I really hate those."

Is it possible that the grand cosmic tumblers are lining up two people for disappointment in a single encounter?

Adora
10-28-2005, 01:03 AM
The first girl I fuck better not be a virgin because I dont like blood at all.
...

NOT SAYING A THING. Being a good girl. Look how good I'm being? Lalalalalala :wall:

Joshua Adams
10-28-2005, 01:32 AM
This thread is awesome.

Carnivale Ed
10-28-2005, 01:38 AM
The first girl I fuck better not be a virgin because I dont like blood at all.
...

NOT SAYING A THING. Being a good girl. Look how good I'm being? Lalalalalala :wall:
Feeling frustrated? Why, is it that time of the month?

livius drusus
10-28-2005, 01:45 AM
We need a morituri te salutam smiley.

Carnivale Ed
10-28-2005, 01:54 AM
Why, am I in some sort of danger? If I am, I insist you institute a non-harassment policy immediately!

Ymir's blood
10-28-2005, 02:14 AM
We need a morituri te salutam smiley.
Indeed.

A seppuku one wouldn't be bad either.

SharonDee
10-28-2005, 02:15 AM
NOT SAYING A THING. Being a good girl. Look how good I'm being? Lalalalalala :wall:I'm so proud of you! :cheer:

Adora
10-28-2005, 04:27 AM
Feeling frustrated? Why, is it that time of the month?
No, actually. If you can't realise the stupidity, you need your glasses checked.

Carnivale Ed
10-28-2005, 08:17 AM
No, actually. If you can't realise the stupidity, you need your glasses checked.See? I knew I could get you to stop being a good girl. Far more interesting. Feel better?

alphamale
10-28-2005, 08:52 AM
Are there any "conservative arts"?
Do fear mongering, quote mining and race baiting count?

Try engineering, science, math, computers - anything that's not BS.

Liberal arts:

Sociology, psychology, revised history, deconstructed literature, "art", drama, basketweaving, pottery, black "studies", womens "studies", gay "studies", hispanic "studies", indian "studies", eskimo "studies", illegal alien "studies", wicca "studies", space alien "studies", fortune telling "studies", clown "studies", magic "studies", euthanasia "studies", affirmative action "studies", religious bigotry "studies", communism "studies", anti-rationality "studies", conspiracy "studies", anarchy "studies", ping pong "studies", cool non-christian religion "studies", yoga "studies", yogurt "studies", bead making, farting, and sleeping.

Adora
10-28-2005, 10:15 AM
Feel better?
I would like to point out that compared to my bad behaviour, pointing out your trolling is still "good".

Ymir's blood
10-28-2005, 10:51 AM
Are there any "conservative arts"?
Do fear mongering, quote mining and race baiting count?

Try engineering, science, math, computers - anything that's not BS.

Liberal arts:

Sociology, psychology, revised history, deconstructed literature, "art", drama, basketweaving, pottery, black "studies", womens "studies", gay "studies", hispanic "studies", indian "studies", eskimo "studies", illegal alien "studies", wicca "studies", space alien "studies", fortune telling "studies", clown "studies", magic "studies", euthanasia "studies", affirmative action "studies", religious bigotry "studies", communism "studies", anti-rationality "studies", conspiracy "studies", anarchy "studies", ping pong "studies", cool non-christian religion "studies", yoga "studies", yogurt "studies", bead making, farting, and sleeping.
:bait1:

Nah, it's too small. I better throw it back.

Carnivale Ed
10-28-2005, 11:09 AM
I would like to point out that compared to my bad behaviour, pointing out your trolling is still "good".
Good girls have no sense of humour :didi:

ManM
10-28-2005, 11:57 AM
Try engineering, science, math, computers - anything that's not BS.

Liberal arts:

Sociology, psychology, revised history, deconstructed literature, "art", drama, basketweaving, pottery, black "studies", womens "studies", gay "studies", hispanic "studies", indian "studies", eskimo "studies", illegal alien "studies", wicca "studies", space alien "studies", fortune telling "studies", clown "studies", magic "studies", euthanasia "studies", affirmative action "studies", religious bigotry "studies", communism "studies", anti-rationality "studies", conspiracy "studies", anarchy "studies", ping pong "studies", cool non-christian religion "studies", yoga "studies", yogurt "studies", bead making, farting, and sleeping.
I'm confused. And here I thought engineering, science, math, and computers were BS. In fact we used to give the computer guys a hard time because we thought they were more BA than BS.

Wizard
10-28-2005, 01:03 PM
What? Ypu dont blame me for not liking blood? especially out of a pussy? :puke:

Veritas
10-28-2005, 02:04 PM
I believe you need a penis bigger than a cocktail stick to cause any bleeding.

livius drusus
10-28-2005, 02:21 PM
What? Ypu dont blame me for not liking blood? especially out of a pussy? :puke:

Okay. I'm going to go ahead and explain it for you even though I suspect it's an exercise in futility.

You talk about women as if they were nothing but apertures for your appendage. You've made your contempt for the gender quite clear in many of your posts here. Even your friends aren't spared your special fuckhole touch.

Now, I'm hoping it's your callow, inexperienced, shy, lonely, frightened, never-known-the-touch-of-a-female-of-the-species youth which leads you to adopt this tone and that someday you'll grow out of it. Until then, however, expect people to react with eye-rolling at best, sidewalk spitting disgust at worst.

erimir
10-28-2005, 03:57 PM
Try engineering, science, math, computers - anything that's not BS.Hmmmm... well I was very advanced in science, math and computers in high school. I mean, I was taking AP computer science in 9th grade, multivariable calculus and calculus based physics in 10th grade, ecology, evolution, genetics, molecular & cellular biology, discrete math, statistics, number theory and math modeling in 11th and 12th. And I was still liberal the whole time. But I can understand how learning about ballistics, recursive heap algorithms and trigonometric substitutions might cause one to realize that capitalism is good, socialism is doomed to failure and that we need to attack Iraq.

yogurt "studies"Mmmmmm... yogurt...
:homdrool:

Veritas
10-28-2005, 04:21 PM
Hey guess what, Wizard? WOMEN MENSTRUATE!!!

OUT OF THEIR PUSSY!!!

EVERY MONTH!!!

Waluigi
10-28-2005, 05:32 PM
Hey guess what, Wizard? WOMEN MENSTRUATE!!!

OUT OF THEIR PUSSY!!!

EVERY MONTH!!!
LIAR! Say it ain't so! :eek:

Crumb
10-28-2005, 07:39 PM
Hey guess what, Wizard? WOMEN MENSTRUATE!!!

OUT OF THEIR PUSSY!!!

EVERY MONTH!!!
I'm sure he knows that, but that doesn't mean he wants to watch.

livius drusus
10-28-2005, 07:45 PM
It is my fondest hope that he never has to, especially with a virgin. His puerile ew gross reaction might give the poor girl a complex for life.

Not all women bleed the first time, Wizard, btw. Not that I'm encouraging you to give it a try, mind you. From what you've said, I don't think you'd make a good lover for a first-timer.

Johnny Pneumatic
10-28-2005, 07:55 PM
Try engineering, science, math, computers - anything that's not BS.

Liberal arts:

Sociology, psychology, revised history, deconstructed literature, "art", drama, basketweaving, pottery, black "studies", womens "studies", gay "studies", hispanic "studies", indian "studies", eskimo "studies", illegal alien "studies", wicca "studies", space alien "studies", fortune telling "studies", clown "studies", magic "studies", euthanasia "studies", affirmative action "studies", religious bigotry "studies", communism "studies", anti-rationality "studies", conspiracy "studies", anarchy "studies", ping pong "studies", cool non-christian religion "studies", yoga "studies", yogurt "studies", bead making, farting, and sleeping.

The bolded aren't BS. Granted handmade pottery isn't needed to get eating wares in modern times, but it's most definitely an art form. I took it for three semesters in college and never did get even partially good at it.

Johnny Pneumatic
10-28-2005, 07:57 PM
It is my fondest hope that he never has to, especially with a virgin. His puerile ew gross reaction might give the poor girl a complex for life.

Not all women bleed the first time, Wizard, btw. Not that I'm encouraging you to give it a try, mind you. From what you've said, I don't think you'd make a good lover for a first-timer.

Is it just me, or does anyone else have the suspicion that Wizard and Apostate Abe are one and the same person?

Veritas
10-28-2005, 08:00 PM
It is my fondest hope that he never has to, especially with a virgin. His puerile ew gross reaction might give the poor girl a complex for life.

Not all women bleed the first time, Wizard, btw. Not that I'm encouraging you to give it a try, mind you. From what you've said, I don't think you'd make a good lover for a first-timer.

Or an any-timer.

Dragar
10-28-2005, 08:20 PM
Is it just me, or does anyone else have the suspicion that Wizard and Apostate Abe are one and the same person?

:ffgiggle:

Oh, and since we're on the topic of liking girls, these last few weeks I've been spotting more girls I think are cute than ever before. There was this very attractive lass outside the computer labs the other day, with very dark brown, almost black hair, curly all the way down to her shoulders... :ffinlove:

Ahem. Anyway, as I was saying, which girls I find physically attractive varies with my mood. Possibly I just notice them more, I don't know. But I'm sure Wizard's views and feelings on the matter will change in time.

Crumb
10-28-2005, 08:49 PM
There was this very attractive lass outside the computer labs the other day, with very dark brown, almost black hair, curly all the way down to her shoulders... :ffinlove:
Jump her bones Dragar! :sex:

Dragar
10-28-2005, 09:16 PM
That would involve me introducing myself to a complete stranger, with the specific goal of some romantic follow-through?

Would you also like the hotel moving closer to the sea?

Wizard
10-28-2005, 09:42 PM
Well I do like one girl or at least imagine it lol. I'm attached to this girl for some reason, I got some jealousy problems, I dont want her to get a boyfriend and if I even see her talking to a guy I get pissed and feel like hurting people. I swear to God(lol I'm an atheist but what the hell) if I saw her making out with a guy I'd kill him or at least throw something at the wall hard. I am friends with her I guess but even the thought of a relationship scares the Hell outta me and even if people ask me if I like a girl I get scared and say no. So asking her out is out of the question but I cant stop love liking her no mater what. Shes the only girl I love like. We're both seniors so at Graduation I sure will be sad unlesss I can keep in touch with her. Ive even considered going to the same college as her just to see her. lol Just joking but I wish she'd go to the same one as me just so I can see her. I love her voice, her personality, her looks. And people have said Id grow out of this "crush" but I've love liked her since January of this year and the first time I saw her last August thought she was pretty the first time I saw her. I probably have some obsession problems but she's the only girl for me. I've seen no girl except her that I want or love like.

Dragar
10-28-2005, 09:51 PM
See, if I really cared about someone, I'd want them to be happy - even if that meant they were with someone else.

Of course, that hasn't helped me get anywhere, so maybe it's better to like them enough that you damned well want them to be with you.

Anyway, you have two choices. Say something, or don't.

If you're friends with her, it's easier to say something, but chances of LJBF* increases the longer you are her friend. Worse, you may end up getting the 'you're like a brother to me' line, which is an even better way for girls to stamp their high heeled shoes into your heart.

So, er, yeah. Say something. At worst you get your hopes crushed and it's awkward for the rest of the year and you never speak to her again (though if she's with your usual 'social crowd' it can be more of a problem). At best, she reciprocates. Usually (well, in my experience) crushes fade pretty quick when you know for sure they're not interested.

*Let's Just Be Friends

cappuccino
10-28-2005, 09:53 PM
Well I do like one girl or at least imagine it lol. I'm attached to this girl for some reason, I got some jealousy problems, I dont want her to get a boyfriend and if I even see her talking to a guy I get pissed and feel like hurting people. I swear to God(lol I'm an atheist but what the hell) if I saw her making out with a guy I'd kill him or at least throw something at the wall hard. I am friends with her I guess but even the thought of a relationship scares the Hell outta me and even if people ask me if I like a girl I get scared and say no. So asking her out is out of the question but I cant stop love liking her no mater what. Shes the only girl I love like. We're both seniors so at Graduation I sure will be sad unlesss I can keep in touch with her. Ive even considered going to the same college as her just to see her. lol Just joking but I wish she'd go to the same one as me just so I can see her. I love her voice, her personality, her looks. And people have said Id grow out of this "crush" but I've love liked her since January of this year and the first time I saw her last August thought she was pretty the first time I saw her. I probably have some obsession problems but she's the only girl for me. I've seen no girl except her that I want or love like.

Well then introduce yourself to her and ask her out. If she dates somebody else and gets a boyfriend then too bad, you lost your chance.

Your post is a little disturbing, you're in love with her and you get angry enough to want to hurt the other guy if you see her talking to a guy? And you say you don't want a relationship but you think you possess her anyway?

That's a classic example of a stalker mentality, you really need to get over yourself. I hope you'll go to a different college because that girl definitely do not need you in her life.

LadyShea
10-28-2005, 10:25 PM
Wizard, you sound like a damned stalker. Read Demosthenes' post, again, several times.

And by the way, obsession is not love, jealousy is not like. You lust for her and that's just scary and immature that you think that is a good basis for a relationship.

Veritas
10-28-2005, 10:33 PM
Hey, chill y'all. She might be a virgin and he don't want no steenkin' poosy blud, no?

Wizard
10-28-2005, 10:39 PM
Well, Im afraid of the change that'll occur if I do, plus Id never get the nerve to ask her out and I dont want my parents knowing and I'd probably never call her if she was my girlfriend. So I really dont know and by the way Im thinking I'll never ask her out though I may ask her to prom because shes the only one I really want to go with next spring. And she's like me, we both stay at home all the time, we're shy and quiet, she doesnt relly have any close friends. Shes not a member of the "social crowd". Im not asking her out im sure, too many reasons not to. I do got some serious problems. and I did call her house in the summer, I talked to her once, and she said I could talk to her the next night, next night she goes on vacation but I hear shes gone for the summer from someone and im crushed. But then my friend sees her in town and says she didnt go anywhere. I called that house over 30 times in one week and it appears she ignored my calls but at school i can see her checking me out of the corner of my eye, its kind of a mind game we both play in that ill stare, then look down and then shell stare so i dont know what tha fucks going on.

LadyShea
10-28-2005, 10:39 PM
Hey, chill y'all. She might be a virgin and he don't want no steenkin' poosy blud, no?

Can you translate that to non-Scottish?

LadyShea
10-28-2005, 10:42 PM
You need therapy, now. You are dangerous to this girl and yourself. If I ould get your address and real name I would consider reporting you to the police.

Do you even realize how scary you sound? You called her house 30 times in a week? You're sick, dude. Get help.


Well, Im afraid of the change that'll occur if I do, plus Id never get the nerve to ask her out and I dont want my parents knowing and I'd probably never call her if she was my girlfriend. So I really dont know and by the way Im thinking I'll never ask her out though I may ask her to prom because shes the only one I really want to go with next spring. And she's like me, we both stay at home all the time, we're shy and quiet, she doesnt relly have any close friends. Shes not a member of the "social crowd". Im not asking her out im sure, too many reasons not to. I do got some serious problems. and I did call her house in the summer, I talked to her once, and she said I could talk to her the next night, next night she goes on vacation but I hear shes gone for the summer from someone and im crushed. But then my friend sees her in town and says she didnt go anywhere. I called that house over 30 times in one week and it appears she ignored my calls but at school i can see her checking me out of the corner of my eye, its kind of a mind game we both play in that ill stare, then look down and then shell stare so i dont know what tha fucks going on.

Wizard
10-28-2005, 10:48 PM
Well, you'e not getting my address, and guess what? My Dad's the police. I'm not dangerous to anyone unless you piss me off and then it'll be Hell for you. Do you seriously think I need to go to the mental institution? I thought it was ok for me to like girls? Well, I guess I've always been this way.

Veritas
10-28-2005, 10:51 PM
Oh wow, I'm scared. :rofl:

Veritas
10-28-2005, 10:53 PM
Hey, chill y'all. She might be a virgin and he don't want no steenkin' poosy blud, no?

Can you translate that to non-Scottish?

Hello everyone. Calm down. Rest assured. The girl in question may be a virgin, and as Wizard has said he hates blood emitting from the vaginal cavity, she would then be in no danger from his wanting to have sex with her, either consensual or forced.

LadyShea
10-28-2005, 10:55 PM
Well, you'e not getting my address, and guess what? My Dad's the police. I'm not dangerous to anyone unless you piss me off and then it'll be Hell for you. Do you seriously think I need to go to the mental institution? I thought it was ok for me to like girls? Well, I guess I've always been this way.

I know I won't get your address, I was just letting you know how truly ill you sound. Sick enough that I would report you if I knew you in person.

Surely you have heard of stalking? Sick, sick people call uninterested girls 30 times in one week.

cappuccino
10-28-2005, 11:41 PM
As LadyShea said, calling the house over 30 times in a week is not normal behavior. You're not acting as an interested suitor, you're obsessing over her and trying to justify it to yourself. No wonder why the girl didn't answer your calls, I won't either if somebody I barely know called me that many times in a week. I doubt that the girl's even actually sending signals to you, more likely you're only misunderstanding her.

Listen to LadyShea, she got good advice for you. You need to leave the girl alone and back away.

Dragar
10-29-2005, 12:01 AM
They have a point. You sound like you were coming on a wee bit strong.

I suggest you spend some time with some friends, of either gender, and learn what are acceptable social habits in this society.

Dingfod
10-29-2005, 12:12 AM
Man, this thread has taken a odd twist, gone from not liking girls to obsessing over one.

Veritas
10-29-2005, 12:22 AM
Obsessives generally don't like the object of their 'affection' very much, though, Warren. :sadcheer:

Dingfod
10-29-2005, 12:24 AM
Because they've been rejected?

Veritas
10-29-2005, 12:30 AM
Because they don't see them as people, but rather as objects. And the fact that a supposedly-opinionless, non-sentient object can still reject them (a bit like everything else in their life, probably) makes them angry, and there's only one place this anger can go - towards the person who caused the anger by rejecting them. It's easier than actually having to look inwards and think that there might be something wrong with them. Much easier to blame the aforementioned object.

Legs
10-29-2005, 12:41 AM
Hey guess what, Wizard? WOMEN MENSTRUATE!!!

OUT OF THEIR PUSSY!!!

EVERY MONTH!!!
Last month I passed a blotclot the size of a hamster :rollover:

livius drusus
10-29-2005, 12:43 AM
:lmao:

Veritas
10-29-2005, 12:43 AM
Better than passing a hamster the size of a bloodclot.

Dingfod
10-29-2005, 12:45 AM
Hey guess what, Wizard? WOMEN MENSTRUATE!!!

OUT OF THEIR PUSSY!!!

EVERY MONTH!!!
Last month I passed a blotclot the size of a hamster :rollover:Have you been having sex with Richard Geer?

Adora
10-29-2005, 01:38 AM
I believe you need a penis bigger than a cocktail stick to cause any bleeding.
Have I told you how much I love you, scarlet?

I got some jealousy problems, I dont want her to get a boyfriend and if I even see her talking to a guy I get pissed and feel like hurting people. I swear to God(lol I'm an atheist but what the hell) if I saw her making out with a guy I'd kill him or at least throw something at the wall hard.
Can I have this girl's address so I can tell her to run very far and very fast away from you, you fucking psycho? Seriously, I call future wife-beater material.

I thought it was ok for me to like girls?
Not if you're a liability to them. Please, for the sake of women (and men) everywhere, become asexual.

Veritas
10-29-2005, 01:42 AM
Have I told you how much I love you, scarlet?

Aww, stop it. :blush: Or I'll have to fist you.

Dingfod
10-29-2005, 01:45 AM
Can I have this girl's address so I can tell her to run very far and very fast away from you, you fucking psycho? Seriously, I call future wife-beater material.I think she is already watching him very closely.

Veritas
10-29-2005, 01:49 AM
Can I have this girl's address so I can tell her to run very far and very fast away from you, you fucking psycho? Seriously, I call future wife-beater material.I think she is already watching him very closely.

Hopefully through crosshairs.

Dingfod
10-29-2005, 02:17 AM
... I called that house over 30 times in one week and it appears she ignored my calls but at school i can see her checking me out of the corner of my eye, its kind of a mind game we both play in that ill stare, then look down and then shell stare so i dont know what tha fucks going on.Checking him out or just keeping an eye on him?

Veritas
10-29-2005, 02:20 AM
I used to do that with my stalker. It got to the point I was hyper aware of where he was in the room, not because I wanted to be with him, but because I thought, if he is at X, I want to be at Y. Wherever he was, I wanted not to be.

Wizard, you're freaking her out. She's keeping an eye on you so she knows where you are and can avoid you.

Wanker.

Wizard
10-29-2005, 03:14 AM
But when I talked to her she didnt even act like I called her. Ok, I over exaggerated with 30, maybe 20. But for 3 str8 nights I called at 9, 9 30, and 10. Well, if I dont like this girl I wont like anyone else, Ill be bacl to my old mack self. lol She always acts friendly towards me and Im probably average looking but yeah I got some problems but maybe she just wasnt at home. I probably should have asked for her number instead of looking in the phone book. I've read part of the Don Juan Bible and understand women better since then.

erimir
10-29-2005, 06:30 PM
Maybe you called the wrong number because she was unlisted, or you picked the wrong one out of the phone book.

Wouldn't that be hilarious?

D. Scarlatti
10-29-2005, 06:37 PM
I cant stop love liking her no mater what.

One of the better Freudian/Oedipal slips I've seen in awhile.

Veritas
10-29-2005, 07:10 PM
I've read part of the Don Juan Bible and understand women better since then.

Where's Adora when you need her? :whup:

Adora
10-29-2005, 11:44 PM
Having orgasms, actually, when that one was posted.

LadyShea
10-30-2005, 12:06 AM
I've read part of the Don Juan Bible and understand women better since then.

The Don Juan Bible is not the way to learn about women...talking to women is. There are many women here, hows about asking us about ourselves?

alphamale
10-30-2005, 12:16 AM
Wizard, just remember the aerospace industry definition of a woman: a life-support system for a cunt! :D

D. Scarlatti
10-30-2005, 12:18 AM
a life-support system for a cunt!

Much like the service this forum provides for you.

alphamale
10-30-2005, 12:21 AM
a life-support system for a cunt!

Much like the service this forum provides for you.

Actually that was pretty funny! :D

Adora
10-30-2005, 12:22 AM
I love you, Scarlatti. :huggle: