blowjob preference poll, for men only!

[dave_a]

OK, so this woman I know is into yaoi which is romantic gay male sex. She asked me what men like as far as blow jobs go and I gave her my opinion. One of her online friends said "Obviously this man never had a good blow job" which kind of set me off. Hence this poll was born.

So, it's like this, if you are male, gay/bi/straight I don't care, answer the poll as to what actually gets you past feeling good to orgasming. Mouth or hand.

My position is that in some cases mouth alone can do it, but in most cases a well lubed (spit or KY, who cares) cock stroked by a hand is far more efficient than mouth alone when it comes to "finishing off".

What say you?

[godfry n. glad]

OK, so this woman I know is into yaoi which is romantic gay male sex. She asked me what men like as far as blow jobs go and I gave her my opinion. One of her online friends said "Obviously this man never had a good blow job" which kind of set me off. Hence this poll was born.

So, it's like this, if you are male, gay/bi/straight I don't care, answer the poll as to what actually gets you past feeling good to orgasming. Mouth or hand.

My position is that in some cases mouth alone can do it, but in most cases a well lubed (spit or KY, who cares) cock stroked by a hand is far more efficient than mouth alone when it comes to "finishing off".

What say you?

Wow...everybody...don't pile on.

Uh...I'd say I could go even more specific than mouth only to tongue only, if she/he knows how to use it. Usually one hand must be used to stabilize the the penis being so treated from the rest of the body thrashing in the throes of pleasureable ecstasy. If a woman knows how to use her tongue, she can bring me off without closing her mouth around my penis. 'Course, the variety is nice.

For me, the tongue must be on the bottom, scrotum side. This is a detriment to "69". :sadnana:

In my opinion, application of a hand in the manner you suggest is a "finishing with handjob", not a blow job. Both can be done together, of course, as you've just described.

godfry

[beyelzu]

OK, so this woman I know is into yaoi which is romantic gay male sex. She asked me what men like as far as blow jobs go and I gave her my opinion. One of her online friends said "Obviously this man never had a good blow job" which kind of set me off. Hence this poll was born.

So, it's like this, if you are male, gay/bi/straight I don't care, answer the poll as to what actually gets you past feeling good to orgasming. Mouth or hand.

My position is that in some cases mouth alone can do it, but in most cases a well lubed (spit or KY, who cares) cock stroked by a hand is far more efficient than mouth alone when it comes to "finishing off".

What say you?
mouth only when the girl is good at what she does.

[seebs]

Mouth only will do it, hand (or two hands) is generally better. Variety is the spice of life, though.

[Goliath]

Let's just say that before about 3 months ago, I would've voted for the third option, but now....mouth all the way, baby! :yup:

[Goliath]

This is a detriment to "69". :sadnana:

Actually, in my (admittedly rather limited) experience, 69ing is overrated. I like to be able to concentrate on what I'm doing, if ya know what I mean. :wink:

Although I gotta admit that the :sadnana: above is a very good smiley placement. :D

Oh, and sorry for the potential derailment.

[godfry n. glad]

This is a detriment to "69". :sadnana:

Actually, in my (admittedly rather limited) experience, 69ing is overrated. I like to be able to concentrate on what I'm doing, if ya know what I mean. :wink:

Although I gotta admit that the :sadnana: above is a very good smiley placement. :D

Oh, and sorry for the potential derailment.

Oh, yeah...I know exactly what you mean. :wink: I like to keep my focus, too. Plus, I like to watch as the excitement develops and peaks, just wishing I could understand the plot line going on in her head. I almost got my jaw broken once, she got so excited, she forgot I was there.

And thank you, kind sir. My placement was entirely intended and I'm glad someone had the good grace to point it out. You are a gentleman and a scholar (though probably both of poor taste, but whatever...).

...and...poo on the potential derailment.

godfry

[pescifish]

I didn't vote the poll, since the OP says "for men only", but in both of my long term relationships, while a handjob could be fun on occasion (especially the ones in public), if we wanted to get the job done, there were some very specific tricks with tongue and mouth that were absolutely 100%. I also agree with godfry on the need for a hand sometimes just to make sure everything is staying in the right direction in addition to the extra stimulation.

[dave_a]

well men, you are letting me down so far, but keep it up, I guess :eek:

[Dingfod]

For me, the physical stimulation is not usually sufficient, I must also be running some sort of fantasy in my mind to get off. Otherwise, I can stay hard for a really long time, but never ejaculate. But, I will say that like godfry, the tongue alone is, more often than not, very satisfying. Hands are only needed as guides.

[Roland98]

I won't vote either, but I've always just used my mouth/tongue. Hand motions are good too, but in my experience, that hasn't been what's done the job. In fact, it seems kind of strange to go to the bother of doing it if you're just going to finish with your hand anyway. I thought the point was rather to be sucked and licked to climax.

[Beth]

Um, what about the hand massaging the perinium while the dirty deed is done. "Nuff said...*leaves the room*

[Scotty]

Just listening to the women talk about it, or possibly just a gentle breeze, is enough for me.

-Scott

[godfry n. glad]

Just listening to the women talk about it, or possibly just a gentle breeze, is enough for me.

-Scott

Damn, Scotty... You're going to have to clean that keyboard again.

Hey! Would somebody close that window so Scott can concentrate?

That better?

godfry

[godfry n. glad]

Um, what about the hand massaging the perinium while the dirty deed is done. "Nuff said...*leaves the room*

Does nothin' for me....

godfry

(the ladies' commentary however, is something else....):yowza:

[Scotty]

I do wear pants for a reason.

-Scott

[Shake]

Well, er ... I've never actually been brought to orgasm via bj. It's always good, but the first girl really didn't know what she was doing wrt the bj, and I just wanted to fuck her anyway.

My wife does an awesome job, but I rarely get them, and it's not because she's holding out or anything, I just almost never ask. But the case with her was that I was actually over-excited, if there can be such a thing, and so I couldn't finish that way. It's too intense, almost in a ticklish sort of way, that disrupts me from being able to cum.

Yeah, 69 is cool to say that you've done it, but it's overrated. I agree with the others who like being able to concentrate on their work!

Oh yeah, the poll! Hmm, I guess there has to be a little hand action in there, if only so that she doesn't gag herself!

[Beth]

Someone gave me a tip on Cloraseptic once. Um, it helps keep gag reflex at a minimum. ;)

[godfry n. glad]

Liv? Our liv? Or, Liv Tyler? :yowza:

Just my :twocents: here.... Chloraceptic should not be needed. There is no need to place the penis so far back in the oral cavity that it might cause gagging...but then, maybe gag reflexes vary. In my experience, the sensitive spot is on the underside of the shaft, just behind the glans. "Deepthroating" in not necessary and adds nothing to the experience, in my opinion.

My college sweetheart was a mere 4'10" in height and her mouth was small. Small enough that the usual method was not advised...so I showed her the "spot" and she became quite proficient at bringing me to climax without "complete coverage" (unless, of course, the stimulator was changed). With her, "69" was a JOY, because she focused on the spot and didn't try to get it all in her mouth (or any of it, for that matter).

godfry

[godfry n. glad]

I do wear pants for a reason.

-Scott

Uh....To show 'em who wears the pants in this outfit? :wink:

I dunno 'bout you, but I can wear pants and get a blowjob!

godfry

[Beth]

Sigh. I think I should drop out of this about now before I gets meself in twubble with teh hubby.

[godfry n. glad]

Sigh. I think I should drop out of this about now before I gets meself in twubble with teh hubby.


mmmm-hmm...yeah, we know... :wink:

Just tell him you picked up your new little tricks from the Cosmo at the grocery checkout line.... :D

godfry

[Scotty]

I need to leave my pants on (and zipped) at work though, otherwise things come up.

-Scott

[godfry n. glad]

I need to leave my pants on (and zipped) at work though, otherwise things come up.

-Scott

Bummer. They just don't have enlightened employers around these days. Does that apply even on "casual Fridays"?

....boy, talk about a killjoy humdrum existence....

:qsigh:

godfry

[godfry n. glad]

Y'know, dantonac....

There may well only be a dozen real men on this board.

What I'm aching to hear is what I can do in the reverse situation...when I'm practicing my cunning linguistics.

Guess I'll have to start my own thread, huh?

godfry

[Scotty]

It makes it even more difficult because we have a plethora of beautiful intelligent women in the office.

We have casual fridays every day, hence I should never wear shorts to work.

-Scott

[godfry n. glad]

It makes it even more difficult because we have a plethora of beautiful intelligent women in the office.

We have casual fridays every day, hence I should never wear shorts to work.

-Scott

You think you've got it bad... I work at a health sciences university. Every year, we get in a new crop of hundreds of beautiful young and intelligent women. We service the nursing school (boy...don't I wish that was full service) and as of this year, the majority of the entering medical students are women, too. Then, there are the biomedical researchers, practicing nurses, nursing instructors, and all the support personnel.

I suffer from HIADD.

godfry

[Godless Dave]

Mouth only. My member does not respond well to hands.

[Bumble Bee Tuna]

the hand? Are you insane? Hell, not only is the mouth better, I'd venture to say the in mouth, swallowed orgasm is the best one of all! Hands to finish is just plain crazy.

[Sycophant]

You know, I voted for mouth + hands, but they are not 'required' - I have certainly had good blowjobs that were all about the mouth, but generally I find a little hand action to add to the overall event.

The best blowjob I've ever had was a mouth only thing - the more bizarre thing was it was over in about 30 seconds, it was all I could do not to buckle at the knees and fall down when I came. It was incredible, I have no idea what she did that made it so effective, but it was some combination of tongue and a little suction. I've never had anything quite like it since.

[HarryLime]

Mouth only works just fine. Hands can be fun, but it's a different kind of orgasm. I find that mouth only tends to build more slowly, but produce longer-lasting aftereffects. Then again, that's just from my own limited experience. And what's with all the hatred of 69? Personally, I dig the hell out of going down on a girl, and that extra excitement tends to translate to really good orgasms for both parties.

Will

[Socratoad]

I'm not all that enthralled by BJs. not to say that I have not had some memorable ones. However tis more blessed to give than to receive. I have been known to ejaculate repeatedly by the sheer ecstasy of giving great cunnilingus. Its giving pleasure to my partner that does it for me. Plus I like the taste.

I'm a gourmand ya know :yup

[Sonnet]

This is a detriment to "69". :sadnana:

...I gotta admit that the :sadnana: above is a very good smiley placement. :D



I agree. This may be the most hysterically apt smiley placement I've ever seen. :bow:

I'm not a man, but count me in under 'thinks 69 is overrated'... :yawn:

[wade-w]

And what's with all the hatred of 69? Personally, I dig the hell out of going down on a girl, and that extra excitement tends to translate to really good orgasms for both parties.

Will

I think "hatred" is an overstatement of what people have said. The general feeling seems to be (and I agree) that it's just overrated. I don't hate it, and it is fun, but it's not all it's cracked up to be. This is because, imo, it's too hard to both concentrate on what you are giving and on what you are receiving at the same time.

Like you, I love going down on a woman. I absolutely adore it. :lecher: But I like to pay attention to what I'm doing and her reactions; receiving head at the same time is just too distracting and, for me, detracts from the whole experience. I much prefer to take turns.

Oh, and as far as the OP is concerned, mouth only for sure.

[Socratoad]

Going down (muff diving) is best 69 is ridiculous ... the plumbing for either gender is not situated correctly ...... I assume, of course that we speak of human on human sex here :D

[godfry n. glad]

I don't know why 69 is so revered. For me, it's reversed, in that it places the most sensitive portion of the penis next to the hard palate, rather than the tongue. I think taking turns is more stimulating for the woman as well. The tongue is best on the lower portion of the shaft, or traps the clitoris under the hood. For this reasons, and those mentioned above, I prefer taking turns over 69.

It seems we have many cunning linguists in the crowd.

godfry

[wade-w]

It seems we have many cunning linguists in the crowd.


True, but be careful talking about it. If you aren't eloquent enough you'll get accused of being a braggart.

[dave_a]

Y'know, dantonac....

There may well only be a dozen real men on this board.

What I'm aching to hear is what I can do in the reverse situation...when I'm practicing my cunning linguistics.

Guess I'll have to start my own thread, huh?

godfry

You can hijack this one if you like, but you would likely get more responses in a new thread appropriately titled.

As far as your question, I think that's like asking "What makes women tick?" There are things the IWC (International Women's Conspiracy) won't allow us to know. Our ignorance combined with our desire/need to please/perform is part of their master plan for world domination and enslavement of the male gender.

[Dingfod]

This thread is disgusting and vile in the eyes of the Lord. Repent or die, sinners. Get thee behind me, Satan. Protect mine eyes from such talk of recreational sex.[/über-Republikan]

[dave_a]

This thread is disgusting and vile in the eyes of the Lord. Repent or die, sinners. Get thee behind me, Satan. Protect mine eyes from such talk of recreational sex.[/über-Republikan]

Sounds like somebody has been listening to church radio this morning :D

Nothing like ending the week by hearing that everything we enjoyed during the week was a sin and we have to repent or burn in hellfire.

[Dingfod]

What could possibly make dantonac write such a thing? I mean who could influence dantonac in that way?





Could it be...? No. Oh, my!





Could it be...? *gasp*






Could it be SATAN????

[Dingfod]

Nothing like ending the week by hearing that everything we enjoyed during the week was a sin and we have to repent or burn in hellfire.*screeeeeeeech* [complete stop]

You mean you got some this week?


Damn you to hell, sinner.


Edit:
Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain, my evil twin, the über-Republikan. He knows not of which he write. The truth shall not pass between his lips or from his hand, he is a tool of... no, just a tool. :D

[bobeh]

Years ago when I was a newly married pup just the idea of a blowjob (performed on moi) was enough to make me cum. Well...time went on, and I got a few along the way...and found they just didn't do much for me. I can't fault the giver...it just somehow doesn't turn my crank.

Giving them does more to get me fired up - anything that gets her going that much gets me going too. So perhaps the bible is right about one thing...it is more blessed to give than to receive.

Anyway, I'm sure that I would enjoy one from a different woman...but that's cause I'm an evolutionarily stunted male who gets turned on at the idea of spreading my genes.

Perhaps one day I'll get the chance (for a new relationship blow job) if my current relationship completely craters. But I don't think I'll crater it intentionally just for the experience.

[Koyaanisqatsi]

No offense, but I think you guys are missing the best part of 69; feeling a woman orgasm all over your face while you fuck her mouth. Hard to beat (pardon the pun).

As for the OP, really, who cares? Mouth, hand, tongue, use it all however you want just so long as you do it because you find it enjoyable, not because you think you're doing me a favor. There's nothing worse than a girl who doesn't want to do something, but does it out of some sort of duty or feeling of obligation, or the like.

I guess I'm a sensualist, but for me, blowjobs aren't all about the orgasm, they're about the intimacy/passion/sensation/heat/intensity/flesh. The glorious flesh, but even that is pointless without the connection.

You suck my cock because you want to feel me harden and expand at your touch, not because you want me to cum in your mouth. If you want that, by all means try and use everything you've got, but I'd be all too happy to accomodate that after we fuck all night and I pull out :D.

That way I get the sexiest post orgasm french kiss there is. I don't know about the rest of you, but nothing gets me reloaded faster than kissing my lover just after I've cum and I taste both of us on her lips (either north or south) :cool:

[seebs]

I think the thing I most like about blowjobs is that (being happily married, but not ready for kids) they are a chance to get laid without a condom. I hate condoms. (And no, the various hormonal things aren't a good option, because they make my already bipolar spouse Very Dangerous, and various snippages aren't a good option, because we want kids Sometime Soonish, Just Not Yet.)

[Socratoad]

I think the thing I most like about blowjobs is that (being happily married, but not ready for kids) they are a chance to get laid without a condom. I hate condoms. (And no, the various hormonal things aren't a good option, because they make my already bipolar spouse Very Dangerous, and various snippages aren't a good option, because we want kids Sometime Soonish, Just Not Yet.)

If I understand your reasoning then methinks I would use the term oral sex as mere blowjobs leaves your wife on the short end of the stick (no pun intended) or do you include cunnilingus under the term "blowjob"?

[seebs]

If I understand your reasoning then methinks I would use the term oral sex as mere blowjobs leaves your wife on the short end of the stick (no pun intended) or do you include cunnilingus under the term "blowjob"?

I'm going to leave the answer at "she's not complaining", without going into a great deal of detail.

[cappuccino]

sorry, double posted

[cappuccino]

Speaking as a gay man,

I put down both mouth and hand for me, I'm really into the intimacy, heat, sweat, scents, and tactile sensations. I tend to be a slow cummer so it just builds up and up and UP till it blows.

Also I love to give BJs, nothing like being the one who's sending him into throes of pleasure :tmbrows:

[Legs]

How do y'all feel about rimming? or is that a whole other thread? :wink:

[Beth]

How do y'all feel about rimming? or is that a whole other thread? :wink:My tongue ain't nevah venturing there. :eek: