Pretty Parts?

[Sweetie]

Alright, a bit of an embarassing question but a real question nonetheless.

So, when women are talking about guy's cocks and stuff, we talk about size of course, and shape but when it comes to women, what do y'all say about them?

Like, there was that one thread about asshole bleaching and my question was, well, what is an asshole supposed to look like, what colour is it supposed to be?

I have the same question when it comes to female genetalia, you don't say, well I got me a big one, or I got one that's like this or like that.

I have a hard time even figuring out what kindof standard a woman would appeal to to compare vaginas, or whatever. If someone were to ask me what mine was like, I really wouldn't know what to say, its just mine. I'm happy with what I've got, I've never been given any reason to think that its supposed to be like any other one instead of like mine.

Thoughts from the men's locker room?

[username]

I have a hard time even figuring out what kindof standard a woman would appeal to to compare vaginas, or whatever. If someone were to ask me what mine was like, I really wouldn't know what to say, its just mine. I'm happy with what I've got, I've never been given any reason to think that its supposed to be like any other one instead of like mine.

Thoughts from the men's locker room?


I had a conversation once with a woman who showed me a picture of her pussy. Forget the details, it just happened. I commented that she had a really nice looking pussy. She asked me something similar to what you just did. In her case she asked "Don't they all look alike?". My response was "No, there is a lot of variance, but they all look good."

I have never seen an ugly pussy in person or film/pictures.

I once saw a woman who was very light skinned, but had very dark brown nipples rather than pink. It was quite different than I was expecting, but they sure were hot. Does that mean pink nipples aren't hot? Not at all. There is variance, but they all look good as far as I am concerned.

It is only you ladies who get all wierd about how a guy's cock looks. Guys might make comments, but when it comes right down to it, there is no such thing as a bad pussy unless it is attached to a worthless woman.

ETA: Even then the pussy is still fine, it is just the woman I wouldn't want to get near.

[Sweetie]

I had a conversation once with a woman who showed me a picture of her pussy. Forget the details, it just happened. I commented that she had a really nice looking pussy. She asked me something similar to what you just did. In her case she asked "Don't they all look alike?". My response was "No, there is a lot of variance, but they all look good."

I have never seen an ugly pussy in person or film/pictures.

Me, I think some are better looking than others, I just have no idea where mine fits in because its mine. I know what I don't like when I encounter, and that goes for anything, including the looks of any given person or what have you.

The problem is too that some men are more descriminating than you, and some men like varying things so its almost impossible to say.

[username]

The problem is too that some men are more descriminating than you, and some men like varying things so its almost impossible to say.

No, men really don't care. Pussy is pussy. Yes, there are variances, but still, pussy is pussy. It is all good. Unless one is gay, but I am thinking gay guys aren't your concern right now.

If there are any guys reading this who disagree, speak now or forever hold your peace/piece.

ETA: pussy taste can vary and I can see preferences developing. Normally the ph of pussy is acidic so it has a slightly sour taste/smell, but it can get neutral to alkaline in ph. When this happens the risk of yeast infection goes way up, but the taste also becomes much sweeter.

Is one better than the other? I dunno, it is like asking if a dry red wine is better than a sweet white wine. Preference. Still all wine has alcohol and all pussy has pussy so it is all good in the end.

[Sweetie]

Well, thanks for the thoughts, not any different than what I expected.

I just find it so amusing that I feel no sense of pride or inadequecy over my genetalia the way the average male does over his and the truth is, I don't know if its so much about women judging the men as it is about the men judging each other according to some sort of preconceived notion or stereotype of what women want.

I may judge a man based on physical appearances, but I don't make the mistake of thinking that because this or that cock doesn't look as good as another, that it isn't as good or doesn't feel as good as another. I never have fallen to the notion that small even, means bad or that one will receive less satisfaction.

Apparently though, in this way, men are less critical maybe because of a higher sex drive or because its all the same to you?

My one friend said that this one girl was extremely preferable due to taste, for instance but its more look and shape and colour I get curious about.

[Godless Dave]

We focus more on the breasts, also ass, legs, and general figure. As far as the genitalia, there is the natural/trimmed/shaved discussion (all men have different preferences) and possibly how tight it is. When I was a freshman in college, one of the sophomores in my dorm pointed out a particular woman and advised us freshmen that if anyone had sex with her, to tie a rope around one's waist as one was likely to fall in.

[Johnny Pneumatic]

Well, I'll disagree with username here, I've seen photos of some that I've found gross. Such as when the vulva is purplish-brown, when the rest of the skin of the woman it's part of isn't. Many look very nice to me, but others look like an alien monster's mouth.

[wei yau]

I'm gonna have to agree with username. In my head, I'm going through hundreds of conversations with "the guys" about women and can't recall ever talking about the visual appearance of female genitalia (except for the bush, as Godless Dave has already pointed out).

[Adam]

I dunno...maybe 'the guys' I've known are unusual, but there's at least a modicum of talk among them devoted to the appearence of the female genitalia, although it appears to be sort of unique in that it only really comes up in a negative context. That is to say, while woman's face or breasts or legs or whatever can be either attractive enough or unattractive enough to merit comment, the genital region normally only gets comments if it's particularly unattractive in some way.

[wei yau]

If what Adam says is true, then maybe "the guys" I know are unusual insofar as none of us have come across an instance of unattractive female genitalia.

[Shake]

I don't think it's something that really gets talked about a lot. At least not with the guys I know. Shape and size of the breasts or ass definitely, but differences in those parts is more readily identifiable. Some guys like the "silver dollar" (or larger) nipples (aereola, actually), while I prefer them smaller.

But as far as pussy goes, I've recently come to realize what you mentioned, Sweetie: that most women don't really realize what a difference there can be. The issue of pubic hair aside, there are variances in the size/fullness of the labia and the prominence/visibility of the clitoris. I generally like to at least see the clit peeking out a little bit, as it looks more grown up.

If you showed me several pussies, I could tell you which ones I liked the best, but I'd be hard pressed to tell you exactly what distinguished them from the others.

[Godless Dave]

I'm more interested in taste and smell than appearance. I love giving head, but not if I'm going to be smelling a week-old tuna sandwich.

[Shake]

Good point, GD!

[Sweetie]

:shudder:

[Sweetie]

:D

How can one even compare each other when they don't even know the technical names of all the different parts, :doh: I've never cared or paid attention before. I find that terms that are used to refer to specific parts are terms I or my community has come to adopt them as general terms.

[bobeh]

In this part of the world the strippers will sometimes do a pussy display when they are so inclined. Having seen a few that way...there is an amazing variety, especially in the lips. I suppose there are some that are prettier than others but I'm not sure I could figure out what it is. I think it has way more to do with who they are a part of.

[Veritas]

Adora has a bucket fanny.

[Adam]

Do I want to know what 'bucket' means in this context?

[happykat]

A "bucket fanny" is better than throwing a wrench in a closet. *hehehe*

I like guys, but some women have nasty looking snatch. (color, floppy bits, etc...)