View Full Version : Is it possible to Love two people at the same time?
Mr & Mrs Smith
05-22-2006, 12:00 PM
I've always heard the ideas behind love affairs being married for nearly 5 years now I have explored the reasons for office liaisons and various other ménage trios, and the most common answer has been That they are in love with someone else with the fact that still love there partners, but are not in love with them. Usually after the mistress turns out to be like wife, but less tolerant he or she goes back to what they once knew?
Lust and love are they the same or different?
It makes you think after 20 or thirty years of marriage is it just tolerated for the sake of monogamy?
Dingfod
05-22-2006, 05:15 PM
Of course it's possible. I love all of my wives equally.
Oh wait, I don't have my Bill Paxton avatar up any more.
peepnklown
05-22-2006, 10:36 PM
I think the problem is that humans are socially engineered to believe a certain thing about ‘love’ or whatever you want to call it.
I think we have to look into the biometrics of this thing we call ‘lust’ and ‘love.’
Mr & Mrs Smith
05-22-2006, 10:40 PM
I think the problem is that humans are socially engineered to believe a certain thing about ‘love’ or whatever you want to call it.
I think we have to look into the biometrics of this thing we call ‘lust’ and ‘love.’
So true conditioning to what is truth is not necessarily false?
Like all affairs of the heart.
peepnklown
05-22-2006, 10:56 PM
Like all affairs of the heart.
I might have been vague; I think we should look into the biometrics of emotions like, ‘love’ before making conclusions. It seems most people only rely on their social engineering when it comes to things like emotions.
Johnny Pneumatic
05-26-2006, 12:40 AM
Well, I think it's possible to love(whether like a best friend and/or in love with them) and lust after multiple people. Think of all the people who do open dating. One's just not enough for some people. Or some would rather get it from multiple people, even though one could make them happy.
Mr & Mrs Smith
05-26-2006, 12:55 AM
My grandfather was married Twice without divorce in Asia the man taking on two wives was seen as sharing resources as for loving them both he did I think although the two families do bicker no end.
My own experiences with love with two people can be seen as wanting rather than committing for today commitment to one person is far better for the head and heart. You might even call having lots of female friends as loving each part of there personalties? I've come to the conclusion I love many parts of my female friends which makes up the emotional need. But sometimes people forget and cross too many lines.
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