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Old 08-24-2004, 01:08 AM
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... Did you lose your virginity?
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Old 08-24-2004, 01:40 AM
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17. She was 16.

Those were the wonder years.

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16, she was 15. But I wasn't her first.

It was a cold concrete floor in a lecture room at Angell Hall in Ann Arbor, Michigan. She was dating the much older guy who would buy for me from time to time, I was so drunk I could barely stay conscious. It really was a quite magical event.
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Old 08-24-2004, 02:08 AM
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23. <sigh> Yeah, I know, I'm pathetic. :(
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Old 08-24-2004, 02:37 AM
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Oh, I dunno, Goliath.
Almost 21 for me. I was a junior in college, he was a freshman. We had been best friends for about 5 months at that point and one day we thought "Gee!"

I had a boyfriend for 7 months when I was 15/16, another when I was a senior in high school (he was in college). We made out like lovebirds, but neither of those relationships was right for sex and we didn't. I don't feel at all pathetic for waiting until the time that I did.

My first was with my best friend and we went on to have a 1.5 year romantic relationship and another couple of years as good friends until he emmigrated to Germany. We lived together my senior, his sophmore year of college. (One of the benefits to being on my own financially while in college--my parents were none too thrilled, but what the hell could they say?)
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I was 18.

It was supposed to be April, but she turned into a dipshit, lying bitch, so I fucked her best friend in an alcohol-induced blackout party; her best friend since 4.

I don't remember it, either. What a shame.

Better than the nasty, emotional, dependent alternative.

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Old 08-24-2004, 02:47 AM
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I refuse to answer on accounta it seeming gross to me NOW.
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Old 08-24-2004, 04:33 AM
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20. For similar reasons as pescifish--had other relationships (or just hook-ups) where I easily could have, but didn't.
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I was 16, he was 17 and considerably more experienced than I. He was, and is, very cute. I was a misshapen, plain-as-pudding adolescent who couldn't believe her good fortune in snaring such a creature. Losing it was blah-to-okay; I hadn't yet acquired the knack of orgasming, and wouldn't for another two years. At the time I thought there was something wrong with me, and I felt like a frigid alien. Other than that, orgasms or no orgasms, sleeping with L made me feel happily empowered. It was fun. It felt good.

He cheated on me the whole time we were together. I didn't find that out until last year. After I got over the initial indignant phase, I realized that if I were he I would have cheated too. I was a typical puling, virginal creature who didn't know what she wanted and made his life hell as a result. He's still a dick. But I understand.

I'm married now, to the best lover on the planet, and I am damn glad I wasn't a virgin when I got hitched. I'm experienced and happy about it, and hubby is happy too (even if he doesn't know exactly how experienced I am.)

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Old 08-24-2004, 05:40 AM
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Um, well, 13.

I was not exactly the sort of child who should have been left unattended.
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I was not exactly the sort of child who should have been left unattended.
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Old 08-24-2004, 02:47 PM
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Somebody is pathetic for not having sex until 23?

You got nothin on me, buddy, meet Sir Pathetic. I am not even going to say it now, cause I feel so pathetic.

I think somewhere else I said I was lame...

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Old 08-24-2004, 03:24 PM
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Um, well, 13.

I was not exactly the sort of child who should have been left unattended.
Was? Oh yeah, you're an adult now! :P

For me, it was 20. I think she was the same age, but I definitely wasn't her first.

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19.

Adora, how about you? You can't post this question and duck the answer! :P
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Old 08-24-2004, 06:42 PM
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Surely there was at least one other person in attendance during this event?
She was not the sort who should have been left alone either, evidently.
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Old 08-24-2004, 06:57 PM
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I was 18, she was 15 or 16 at the time. She is now my wife. Haven't played on a very wide field, but I like the hometeam well enough :yup:

Now, if we count anal and oral then I was younger, but I was 18 the first time willy entered the love tunnel.
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Old 08-24-2004, 07:20 PM
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You may have just admitted to the commission of felony sexual assault.
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Old 08-24-2004, 07:28 PM
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You may have just admitted to the commission of felony sexual assault.
In what state?

Lucky he married her.

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Old 08-24-2004, 07:32 PM
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Wisconsin. I don't think the subsequent marriage matters, since even being married at the time of the offense is not a bar to prosecution. However, the latter statute, 948.02 (4), refers to "the complainant," and we can assume for the purposes of this thread that she was not complaining.
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Old 08-24-2004, 07:48 PM
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Wait, let me see if I can do my posts in smiley's.

"In what state?" :sheepshag:: (okay, close visually)

"Lucky he married her" :gossip:

Couldn't find exactly what I wanted, but close enough ;)

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Hmmm...I cannot say. It's rather sad.
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21 or 22-- can't remember. It was awful and if I could go back, I'd not have chosen that guy to "get it over with". Wonder whatever happened to him.

Nil-- what a horrible story.
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Adora, how about you? You can't post this question and duck the answer! :P
Unless you perhaps think about why I would start such a thread, and why I would have no reason to comment... ¬_¬;
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Don't worry Adora, you have a lot of years to go before you become pathetic ;)

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Old 08-25-2004, 04:54 PM
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I was 22, they were 26 and 33 (I think.) Of course when this opportunity arose I didn't mention the fact that I was a virgin. They just assumed I was more experienced than I was when they made me an offer I couldn't refuse.

Getting a later start is NOT pathetic. I think it can, actually, be a good sign of maturity. My personal bias may be showing...

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