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Originally Posted by yguy
As a rule, women tend to be susceptible to silly ideas. Men have no business taking advantage of that vulnerability to satisfy their own egotistical desires.
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Ok, so I'm curious. To what do you refer to?
It seems to me that you are suggesting that it is primarily men interested in anal sex and that yes, women agree to it, some even like it, but it mostly arises from men's desires, not women's.
I tend to agree. Personally I think being called a tight ass is a compliment, but, and I know enough men who wouldn't have done to them what they want to do to women, ie: I know a lot of my friends used the "Exit Only" motto.
But, some women do like it. Porn stars even seem to enjoy it.
But really, for many women it's a "last taboo". After you've done everything else, and everything else is common place, it's something else to add to a list of things to do........for them, not necessarily for the men, but sometimes for the men. I just think if a woman is getting enough from regular ol' vaginal intercourse, she needs not look elsewhere for satisfaction. Like really, how many orgasms can a girl really have, and how much better can they actually get?
So for some woman wanting to ease their anal cavity into being able to stand larger sizes....ahem, I think you should try to find a better lover first. There's a reason why it's tight, there's a reason isn't made with natural lube, there's a reason why we stay away from feces in general, etc. There's a reason why men tend to enjoy naturally grotesque things unlike women tend to.
But, I think men tend to enjoy receiving anal sex moreso than women.
I liked that scene in Brokeback Mountain where Heath Ledger degrades his wife by degrading himself, by skipping natural vaginal interaction and flipping her on her stomach. It was very.....pyschologically informing? Something, don't know the word.
I would say to a man who's more than just mildly curiously interested in it, you want everything, find yourself a whore, that's what they're for.
How do you see things in order to justify your judgements, is my question.
And just for the sake of information for others:
For the record:
"Bleeding, pain and even perforation can occur as a result of anal sex. Use common sense and stop if you feel discomfort or notice blood. Unlike a vagina, your anus does not self-lubricate, so you'll need to liberally apply a water-based lubricant for any kind of penetration. And don't be afraid to speak with your doctor about any concerns you may have.
Other complications can arise that are not usually related to sexual activity:
* internal and external hemorrhoids, or varicose veins of the anus and rectum;
* anal fissures, or tears or cuts of the anal lining, which usually result from a hard bowel movement;
* abscess, a dangerous infection caused by sex or stool caught in the anal crypts;
* fistula-in-ano, an infection marked by a pimple near the anus that drains pus, which can develop into an abscess;
* anal pruritus, or itching, caused by an allergy, infection, or less commonly, hemorrhoids;
* fecal soiling, or staining of your underwear;
* fungal dermatitis, or jock-itch around your anus; and
* bacterial dermatitis, an infection of the skin caused by shaving, rubbing or scratching. "
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