Making Masturbation Induced Orgasms Stronger?

[Johnny Pneumatic]

Is there a way? If so, how could I make it more pleasurable?

[Adora]

*sings* Relax, don't do it, when you want to come...

Seriously, it's as simple as that. The more times you pull back from the edge, the better the final release.

[seebs]

Oh, boy. A very interesting topic.

The answer varies a lot with gender, for one thing.

The general advice of pulling back from the edge mostly works, although it can be overdone. Variety of sensations will generally let you build up more tension. Fantasies may or may not help you, but many people report that choice of fantasy can make a BIG difference.

Experiment with entirely different ways of doing it, too; you may find that you like something you haven't even tried before much better.

[Lauri D]

Hmmm. It's been my experience (as a female) that some sort of penetration in addition to outer stimulation makes climax more intense, especially if you practice your Kegel excercises.

[Johnny Pneumatic]

Originally Posted by Lauri D

Hmmm. It's been my experience (as a female) that some sort of penetration in addition to outer stimulation makes climax more intense, especially if you practice your Kegel excercises.

Hmmmm, that's not going to work for me.(straight male)

[seebs]

For straight males, it's a lot simpler. Adora's advice is about 90% of it. There's been whole books written on things you can do to make things more intense. Main thing I'd recommend is develop different ways of masturbating, so you can vary your technique more.

Curiously, I actually know less about this than I do about female masturbation.

[Johnny Pneumatic]

Originally Posted by seebs

Main thing I'd recommend is develop different ways of masturbating, so you can vary your technique more.

Like what? Switch hands, put one leg behind my head and hop around on the other one?

[livius drusus]

How about a cockring?

[LadyShea]

Originally Posted by SkepticJ

Like what? Switch hands, put one leg behind my head and hop around on the other one?

Wrap silk or fur around your penis? Buy a vibrating "pocket pussy" male masturbation toy? Try a butt plug? Try different lubes (some heat up, some cool down, etc)? Try using both hands, changing your rhythm, changing your hand position, etc. Just have fun and try some different things.

* with the exception of the butt plug, I have done all these things when giving my husband hand jobs with some really good results.

[Adora]

Originally Posted by SkepticJ

Hmmmm, that's not going to work for me.(straight male)

Have you ever tried it? Y'know in the right place and all, it can help a guy a lot.

[seebs]

Well, techniques... Read up on the topic, there's lots of writing out there. As an example, some guys can have orgasms from manipulation only of the shaft, not touching the head at all. There's a lot of extra options for uncut guys, too.

[ApostateAbe]

My first experiences jerking off were hands-free. I didn't even know it could be done better with the hands. It took about an hour of intense concentration before orgasm. Then when I first tried it with the hands, I thought, "Damnt, I could have saved a lot of time."

For me, masturbation is better when imagining chicks I know personally rather than some skank stripping on the Internet. So you can have a better time jerking off when you hang around beautiful chicks.

I also find that it is better when I imagine that it is a forbidden form of fucking, such as underage sex, rape, sex with relatives, sex in public, sex with coworkers, etc.

[Aurora Elegance]

Originally Posted by ApostateAbe

I also find that it is better when I imagine that it is a forbidden form of fucking, such as underage sex, rape, sex with relatives, sex in public, sex with coworkers, etc.

My kind of kinks.

[Johnny Pneumatic]

Originally Posted by ApostateAbe

sex with cow orkers, etc.

What's wrong with having sex with cow orkers?

[Godfather]

Originally Posted by SkepticJ

What's wrong with having sex with cow orkers?

That depends on which orking method is used and the size of the cow. Seriously (kinda) though, there's nothing wrong with sex with co-workers, unless you're, like, a Catholic priest or a police officer in a K-9 unit.

As for how to get more pleasure from your filthly, sinful onanistic self-abuse, a few things spring to mind. If you favour quality over quantity, they longer you wait between orgasms, the more intense they will be. After a couple of weeks, your eyes will just about right pop out of your head. Also, body tension can hasten/intensify orgasms, so try tensing your muscles, particularly your legs.

[Adora]

Another recommendation from a friend: If you're not willing to experiement with your insides, stroking the perenium (sp?) is apprently rather good.

[Johnny Pneumatic]

Originally Posted by Godfather

If you favour quality over quantity, they longer you wait between orgasms, the more intense they will be. After a couple of weeks, your eyes will just about right pop out of your head.

So that's why the first time I did it was so amazing, not to mention messy; oops just did.

[dave_a]

Originally Posted by SkepticJ

Hmmmm, that's not going to work for me.(straight male)

Dear god, why are you a male? I have wanted to do you ever since you used that uber hot avatar. I was certain you were female. Shit, you just ruined the whole thing for me. Fuck you and your incorrect chromosomes.

[Johnny Pneumatic]

Originally Posted by dantonac

Dear god, why are you a male? I have wanted to do you ever since you used that uber hot avatar. I was certain you were female. Shit, you just ruined the whole thing for me. Fuck you and your incorrect chromosomes.

I can change it if you'd like.

[livius drusus]

Those are both cool, but the top one is a particularly striking photograph. That's only if you really, really want to change your av. Otherwise just tell dantonac to suck your cock and keep doing the excellent rainbow catwoman thing.

[pescifish]

I love that top photo! Of all the schticky 007 villains, that character's schtick was way cool. "Didn't your mother ever tell you not to look into a briefcase full of diamonds when a bomb is about to go off?"

[dave_a]

Originally Posted by livius drusus

Those are both cool, but the top one is a particularly striking photograph. That's only if you really, really want to change your av. Otherwise just tell dantonac to suck your cock and keep doing the excellent rainbow catwoman thing.

Hell if he looked like his avatar I would drop to my knees and make like a Hoover in a heartbeat. I have nothing against chicks with dicks as long as they look as hot as his avatar does.

[wei yau]

Originally Posted by SkepticJ

Hmmmm, that's not going to work for me.(straight male)

A bit late in responding, but Kegels (at least) can work for you. I recommend practicing them as often as you can. Not only will it help you with control, which is recommended here as a response to your OP, but it has added benefits with regards to keeping a healthy prostate.

[Sycophant]

Originally Posted by ApostateAbe

I also find that it is better when I imagine that it is a forbidden form of fucking, such as underage sex, rape, sex with relatives, sex in public, sex with coworkers, etc.

Holy shit. That is the first time in AGES that I have actually really laughed out loud when reading a forum post.

Call me old fashioned, but I tend to fantasize about past sexual experiences (sometime embelishing them, sometimes not) and most of the time with my current partner. Of course past experiences can include at least three of the things you mentioned.

As for more intense... I find tightening my grip just below the head immediately before ejaculation makes it a little more intense. Also physical cues are good (if half your bed smell like your girlfriend for example).