[Plant Woman]

There is no way anyone can ever have a meaningful and thought provoking discussion with a personality such as what you are dealing with here. This is clearly some sick game and you are all pawns. I would say this person isn't so much passive-aggressive, more likely this is narcissistic behavior. And if you ever have lived with one you can spot them a mile away, and you know you can never be more than a pawn in their lives. The best thing is to disengage and distance yourself as far away as possible, because this person will never acknowledge you in anyway.