[Demimonde]

Okay the color thing makes me both lol and rage. Contra has a far more extensive color vocab than I do, and so looking at paint colors yesterday for the house I was all, "I like the dark goldy yellow" and he is all smug and says like it's the most obvious thing in the world, "It's ochre."

But I have my revenge because he doesn't know architectural terms for shit.

Now it is worthy of real rage because it is one of those things that are considered feminine and as an artistic kid he was brutally teased for it, and to an extent is made him a black sheep to his stepdad. Then he grew to six and a half feet and people stfu. To him anyway. But he did have a friend of a friend tell some kinda homophobic joke were the punchline is a dad thinks his son is gay because he refers to a car as "sea foam" rather than a Chevy, and Contra tore the shit out of him. So the stereotype is there.